Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Why God created woman from man's rib.

As posted by journalynne:
http://journalynne.wordpress.com/2006/10/11/why-god-created-woman-from-mans-rib/

It’s amazing how God made man, and so beautiful how he made woman!
Why did God create Woman from Man’s rib, when He could
have simply created her from dust, as He did Man? This
is a story that puts a beautiful touch on the
reasoning:
“When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke
them into being. When I created man, I formed him from
the dust of the Earth and breathed life into his
nostrils. But you, woman, I fashioned after I breathed
the breath of life into man because your nostrils are
too delicate. I allowed a deep sleep to come over him
so I could patiently and perfectly fashion you. Man
was put to sleep so that he could not interfere with
the creativity. From one bone I fashioned you. I chose
the bone that protects man’s life. I chose the rib,
which protects his heart and lungs and supports him,
as you are meant to do.”
“Around this one bone I shaped you. I modeled you. I
created you perfectly and beautifully. Your
characteristics are as the rib, strong yet delicate
and fragile. You provide protection for the most
delicate organ in man, his heart. His heart is the
center of his being; his lungs hold the breath of
life. The rib cage will allow itself to be broken
before it will allow damage to the heart. Support man
as the rib cage supports the body.”
“You were not taken from his feet, to be under him,
nor were you taken from his head, to be above him. You
were taken from his side, to stand beside him and be
held close to his side. You are my perfect angel. You
are my beautiful little girl. You have grown to be a
splendid woman of excellence, and my eyes fill when I
see the virtue in your heart. Your eyes: don’t change
them. Your lips: how lovely when they part in prayer.
Your nose so perfect in form, your hands so gentle to
touch. I’ve caressed your face in your deepest sleep;
I’ve held your heart close to mine. Of all that lives
and breathes, you are the most like me.”
“Adam walked with me in the cool of the day and yet he
was lonely. He could not see me or touch me. He could
only feel me. So everything I wanted Adam to share and
experience with me, I fashioned in you: my holiness,
my strength, my purity, my love, my protection and
support. You are special because you are the extension
of me.”
“Man represents my image, woman – my emotions.
Together, you represent the totality of God. So man:
treat woman well. Love her, respect her, for she is
fragile. In hurting her, you hurt me. What you do to
her, you do to me. In crushing her, you only damage
your own heart, the heart of your Father and the heart
of her Father. Woman, support man. In humility, show
him the power of emotion I have given you. In gentle
quietness show your strength. In love, show him that
you are the rib that protects his inner self.”

Thursday, October 27, 2011

I never had a dream come true - Insights.


If cupid really exists, I would really be the one to shoot an arrow just to kill him.

For why would he make me feel loved, and just take it away from me?
Why would he make me feel happy, and just put all this sadness in me?
Why would he make me feel special, and just make me feel worthless now?

WHY WOULD HE PAIR ME WITH SOMEONE, AND JUST TAKE HER AWAY FROM ME?

Its almost a month. Tomorrow could have been another month added on our life. Still tomorrows could have brought happy moments together. It could have brought smiles shared with each other. But there's no tomorrow now. All I see is yesterday.

We shared our life. We shared our happiness together. We shared our sadness together. We went through all problems along the way. I was there when she needs me. She was there when I need her too. And now we're worlds apart.

Yes, there's no use looking back or wondering how our love could have been now. It's all part of our yesterday.  But my today is still you. Our memories. Our love. You're still my dream come true.

I could not ask for you to come back. I could not ask God for you to be my future.

But no matter where love takes me to, always remember..

A part of me will always be with you.

...

Ooh...

Everybody's got something they had to leave behind
One regret from yesterday that just seems to grow with time
There's no use looking back or wondering (or wondering)
How it could be now or neither been (or neither been)
All this I know but still I can't find ways to let you go

Chorus
I never had a dream come true
Till that day that I found you
Even though I pretend that I've moved on
You'll always be my baby
I never found the words to say
You're the one I think about each day
And I know no matter where love takes me to
A part of me will always be with you

Somewhere in my memory I lost all sense of time
Amd tomorrow can never be
'Cause yesterday is all that fills my mind
There's no use looking back or wondering
How it should be now or neither been (or neither been)
Oh this I know but still I can't find ways to let you go

Chorus

You'll always be the dream that fills my head
(Yes you will, say you will, you know you will, baby)
You'll always be the one I know (I'll never forget)
There's no use looking back or wondering (or wondering)
Because love is a strange and funny thing
No matter how I try and try
I just can't say goodbye
No no no no

Chorus

A part of me will always be with you... 

Friday, October 7, 2011

What I know about love.

     I've been into 5 relationships since I was 13. My last 2 we're almost of 2 years. But all did not end well.
I'm romantic - in words and imaginations. I don't settle for temporary relationships. I want relationships that would last forever. When I enter a relationship, I would think about our marriage. I would think about where we would live. I would plan to have a house and a beautiful car. I would think of bringing my girl to a romantic place. Yes, I would think entirely of giving her everything!

    But then, I'm romantic in words and imaginations. Its more like a fantasy.

    The last time I was in a relationship, I thought 90% that she's the one. For one reason, she had things I dreamed for my ideal wife. She had introduced me into her family. We almost see each other every single day. We go to each others church. A perfect couple which I thought would spell out everything. But I was wrong. Since I went to this city to help my sister look after her kids and go for a possible job at the BPO industry, things did'nt go well for us. Science tells us the farther the distance, the lesser the attraction. Scientists were right about that. We could not keep our relationship strong anymore. From time to time, She told me that she wants to give up.  But I keep persisting to make our relationship grow. I know for one point I'm not that matured yet and that I need to grow up. But there are things that I just cant handle myself. I cant live by her standards. I just continue pretending that I'm happy even if I'm not.I thought of giving up a hundred times but afraid that Ill gonna die emotionally. But here I am now. Its just a week since we broke up but its funny that I feel like I'm unaffected. I used to check her facebook status everyday trying to see if there's another complain about me that she posted. I cant even chat freely coz she would use my account and see my chat histories and everything. What hurts me there is that she always doubts.  I never cried when we broke up. Its like after all the hurt and tears I feel when we're together, I'm brand new me.

 I know marriages are made in heaven. When God made woman, he created her from the man's rib. I know someone has a piece of me and we'll get married at the right time. I created my standards of a girl I would want to marry someday and that makes me think she's the one.
But God is in control. He has someone I deserve. She might be close, but she taught me a lot about my life and I thank her for that.

Right now I just feel great. I feel free. No troubles. No heartaches.

Whatever the future brings, only one thing is sure for me.
God is in control.